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Anonymous asked: If I don't think emotionally that I want to have sex does that make me asexual or would I also have to have no desire to have sex with other people physically/hormonally? Is this the wrong place to ask this?

Insofar as this blog being the right place for this sort of question: technically, we’re here for all things kink-practice or kink-theory related –mostly I’m just concerned that we wouldn’t be the best people to ask about asexuality or general orientation-type of questions, which are important questions and should thus be answered by those better qualified and informed.

A good place to start might be asexuality.org, which is headed up by the Asexual Visibility and Education Network and has some good resources and forums. Aaaaand asexualnews.com has a nice list of links right over here, which looks like it has a little more on the different orientations under the Ace umbrella. :)

In the spirit of stretching this back around to the kink-related, I do want to add that the kinky lifestyle and community is often a great place for asexuals or those looking for intimate but nonsexual relationships. Many practitioners play completely nonsexually, plus defining your needs and boundaries is an intrinsic part of proper play. We’ll probably do a little spread on nonsexual play, so keep a look out for that soon!

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We’ve got some great questions in our inbox already, that’s awesome! There’s still a little groundwork that needs to be done in terms of covering “Safe, Sane, Consensual,” our big long giant disclaimer, trigger warning guide, introductions, general setup stuff, etc, etc, BUT we’re going to do our best to answer a few of these questions alongside the foundationbuilding stuff.

I do want to go ahead and say that we received a really good question about setting up rules and suchlike in a new dom/sub relationship that will be added to our BIG, SHINY, EXCITING FAQ PAGE, which you will all want to check out as soon as we get it up and fill it with information :D.

Thanks to all those who submitted questions, and we hope all you wonderful people won’t be shy in communicating with us— even if we don’t answer right away, all submissions and questions will be considered and addressed, so stay tuned !!! pkkkrooo pssshhh wowww fireworks pizazz confetti raaahhhhh :D 

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Hey, wow, you know what’s awesome? LOTS OF DIFFERENT THINGS AND LOTS OF DIFFERENT PEOPLE.

Here at kinkcyclopedia, we are a POSITIVE BLOG.

That means we are PRETTY COOL and we like PRETTY COOL STUFF including:

Kink-positivity (obviously)! Sex-positivity! Body-positivity! Queer-positivity! Trans* positivity! GSM-positivity! Sex and Gender Equality! Race Equality! Class Equality! Cultural Equality! Social Equality!

and FEATURING the values of~ SAFE, SANE, CONSENSUAL PRACTICE!

Kindly leave your -ISMs (sexism, ableism, racism, etc), -PHOBIAs (homophobia, transphobia, fatphobia, etc), and -SHAMING (slutshaming, bodyshaming, etc) at the door, you won’t be needing them here.

Kinktacular!

Let’s face it, power exchange is a part of our everyday lives, whether it’s sucking up to your boss, babysitting your younger sibling, tickling the bejeezus out of your best friend, or teasing your lover with some small, clever buzzy thing crammed into a warm orifice. —And what do you know, some folks just really like this idea of consensually passing power and control, physical, mental, sexual, back and forth, and WOAH HEY SUDDENLY THERE WAS THIS THING AND IT WAS CALLED KINK AND IT WAS BOMBASS.

Kink, BDSM, Leather, Bondage, S&M, Whips&Chains, ‘the rough stuff,’ sadomasochism— whatever you call it, we’re all about it! This tumblr is dedicated to answering your kinky questions~ Curious, cautious, interested in learning to play, or just writing a kinky fic? WE HAVE YOUR ANSWERS, PROBABLY, (IF WE DON’T ACTUALLY, WE AT LEAST KNOW HOW TO FIND THEM) AND WE WANT TO SHARE THEM WITH YOU.

So bring us your huddled fantasies yearning to be free, line up your queries, send us pointers of your own— we all know knowledge= power, and this blog is all about POWER EXCHANGE.

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